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work hard for a living asked:


As far as the 2nd question, I believe so. Especially in the age of no-fault divorce with 50% divorce. You can want to preserve a marriage, but a divorce will happen unilaterally by the spouse.

I earn a very high salary as a web application developer, while also doing freelance work as an information technology consultant, and I earn above 100k with the potential to earn more.

When dating, I am focused on marrying somebody with a career and with goals/ambition, an economic equal …….not a mooch that can divorce me and eat my VERY VERY hard-earned salary in a few years. Women apparently have the same view since they generally marry up, with a lot seeking to be supported looking for a provider. Not every single woman of course but a lot.

A lot of people have responded by telling me that if I loved somebody then it doesn’t matter how much money they make, and to not think about money when dating. But women, would you marry somebody who earned equal/little/lot less money then you or even date them, regardless if their personality was perfect and ultra sweet towards you? Or are you only focused on marrying far far up for a rich guy? It seems like the general attitude is that it is OK for women to be conditional in who they love/date when money is involved…….but these same women pressure me to not consider money when looking for somebody, yet I don’t think they would date/marry somebody who makes less then them. If this is true, it’s a double standard. Is it true? Do you think a lot women are conditional to dating men based on salary requirements, while personality is secondary to money?

What is your take on all of this? I will not have a long-term serious relationship with somebody who makes a lot less than me. *It doesn’t matter how beautiful/hot she is, if she is broke*. I know personal examples of very beautiful girls who work low-wage dead-end jobs saying they are waiting for a man to “take care of them”. I believe that when men are blinded and clouded by this….then they are the prey & suckers for future alimony/child support payments/assets/pension/retirement/bank account division down the line.

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mommad asked:


Should I be concerned? my brother inlaw is constantly buying husband expensive gifts! He is not an honest man! I don’t know what he does for a living. He makes himself look really wealthy. It’s all a front. He last townhome was on a forclosure website. He dosen’t pay for anything he buys. It’s a problem because he buys my husband gifts and the manages to create problems for us. I need to tread lightly because it is my hubby’s brother, but ladies what would you do?
I don’t think he is stealing wallets. A little more money is involved then that. I don’t care about the gifts It’ s the principle of working for what you have and not owing anyone anything! That is what my hubby doesn’t get.

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patrick s asked:


my x husband is very wealthy and has investigators all over my boy friend and has said if i see him ever ever again he will take the kids,by the way 18yrs ago my boyfriend had a drug problem he found out about ,what do i do have not seen the love of my life for 3 weeksjust terrified i will lose my kids,i have filed for divorce!!
me and the boyfriend have been together for 3 yrs so its not a fling my children love my new man and his children love me
and they love each other

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mizzhollywood26 asked:


or even if he just had more money.
i’m afraid ill be like this in the future when i get married, and i’ve never had a cheating mentality.
lol@missing.

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karmablondy asked:


My husband got out of the Marine Corps a month ago. There’s no income coming in except a few hundred dollars a month I get for disability. There’s not enough to cover for rent. Rent was due by today so at this point things are scary. My husband called his wealthy family and they said they’re not going to help because he needs to learn responsibility. Well his license got suspended a while back because he never paid a speeding ticket, he lost his social security card. I got online and filled resumes out for him. I even got him a few job applications. However he will not fill them out. I don’t want to argue with him over it anymore because it seems to do no good but cause problems . We currently have no food at all and he went online and asked people for help, but I feel it’s not others responsibility to help us. I have talked to my family about coming home and leaving until he will have to learn on his own that I should not have to live this way either. How ever my family said, I am married that I have to work it out even if it means becoming homeless. I currently have 5 ad’s up for day care and am going to meet with a few people next week. So I am doing all that I can do. When my husband first got out of the Marine Corps, the first few days he did turn in about 15 applications and had no luck. I am not sure if he is discouraged or what. My question is, what should I do? I have told my husband we can’t be homeless and if no money is coming in we’re going to end up that way. He said, it won’t happen and then posted an ad online for help. How can he expect to live this way and what is wrong with him? Please help

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Jane Roscoe asked:


Let me just start by saying that my husband is very wealthy, making about $2,000,000 per annum. I have found someone at my tennis club who is also very wealthy who I want to go for. What’s the best way to divorce my husband and partner with this gentleman while still being eligible for alimony payments. Is there any way to remarry and still collect the alimony payments? I just really don’t want to be at a loss here if things don’t work out.

I live in Newport Beach, California if that makes any difference with the divorce laws.
To answer some of your questions, nothings really wrong with my husband but I like this guy better. My husband is about 10 years older than I am and this other guy is closer to how old I am.
Also, I have 2 twin boys, 9 years old. How can I make sure I can get full custody?

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TommyGirl869 asked:


My husband’s father remarried several years ago. His step-mother has two of her own children and a common child with my husband’s Dad. My husband’s father had little to do with him growing up. He is a retired principal of a middle-school and was a dead beat dad. They have a relationship now but it is mainly because of our four children.

In the event my husband’s Dad dies first, all of their possessions and money will go to his step-mother. Who I am sure will divide it between her three children and leave my husband out.

Does he have any legal recourse to receive a share, if his father dies before his step-mother. Or is he just out of luck?

I feel he is owed this, his father is very wealthy. Growing up my husband and his Mom were hand-to-mouth. He went without, while his step-siblings and half sibling received everything. He had to work in order to pay for college, they did not.

Thanks in advance.

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lil’ g asked:


Would u want a husband that is cute and wealthy.Or a husband that acts like ur slave. How would you describe a perfect husband?

proofofignorance asked:


I’ve heard about lawyers that find wives of wealthy men and encourage them to divorce. This is so the wife can have *more* money around retirement time. i.e. 1/2 pension and 1/2 belongings and, the kicker, spousal support. This is obviously more than she would have if she had to *share* the money. The lawyers benefit with the proceedings. I have heard of one case of lawyers doing this practice, has anyone else?

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I just joined the Millionaire dating site http://www.BillionaireCupid.com . Is it possible to meet a rich husband and shaire his wealthy lifestyle?

Eva asked:


Will you leave money and easy life for love?

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