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cutetanny asked:


I have not much experience with men. Recently I have met a man 46 yrs old. I am in my early 34 he was married for 18 years divorced with two kids. I was married before for 2 yrs. with one child.
He approached me with showing lots of love affection he pushed me to meet him almost every day and visited my parents thrice spend quality time with my child and talked to me about sex few times and when I said I wanted to wait for the right time to make sure this is what we both wanted. As in the past he mentioned to me he jumped into the relationships quickly.
Following week he went on a travel trip internationally called me first few weeks on and off but than started making excuses like black berry is not working. If I called him he picked up the phone hung up on me saying hello hello…. told me he could not hear me, I called him on other occasion his phone was busy for a long time he called me back and told me he was doing brush I send an email to him no response for few days. For two to three days on the weekend he would not be reachable after Thursday he will contact me on Monday I would have no idea where in world he was he told me he text which I never got. Before leaving for 6 weeks trip he begged me to wait for him as he told me he was torn into pieces and I promised him I would wait for him I waited for him I went out in groups but did nothing to cross my limits. Other guys asked me out I told them no as I was waiting for him.

When he returned I picked him from the airport I was in love with him. I did not feel anything from his side infact he could not even stand in front of me and he was avoiding eye contact. He asked me twice if I found some one else I said no or else I would not be here. Well he said you are here because of your promise. When I asked him the same question if he found some one else he said yes but I was not sure if it was true as he smiled sarcastically and when I asked him again he told me he wouldn’t be grinding himself with me. He was rude to me in his comments and asked me if I kissed someone else while he was gone. I felt he was putting blame on he and me some how wanted to be out of the relationship. He always call himself dog and would always say old dogs don’t learn new tricks I was getting irritated by his rude behavior and lies and I jokingly softly said than some times I wonder what I am doing with an old dog. I left him telling him I felt stupid as being well educated and well traveled he kept on saying like black berry is not working phone is not working, online chat is not working. He told me I am looking too much into small things I told him if I would do the same to him how would he feel he said he was just joking and having fun by doing all this. I told him I don’t want to be stupid in a relationship and I don’t play games.

After that he send me one line email thanking me for picking him up from airport. No further contact form his side or mine. My 5 yr old girl and parents are asking about him I am feeling miserable despite of his earlier lies like about his age and how long was he married for I forgive him. He was married for 18 yrs to 20 yrs he told me 15 yrs. Infact he made a big face when he found out I was 34 as he expected me 32 or 33.

He reduce his phones calls from the day I told him that my company is heading on to layoff people on September 2nd and my name might be there. Although he has got no job himself but he is starting his new venture in his divorce settlement he got a huge amount as his ex wife was from a wealthy family. Nothing matters to me the most is the basic nature and character of a man, job or no job is ok if he is educated and capable should be able to find something. Moreover when he had no hope in his life I stood by him through phone calls and emails give him hope and showed him some one cares for him, and I really did as I got emotionally involved with him I cared for his well being. Now I am left emotionally shattered.

Is being nice and forgiving and not ready to hop in the bed right away or having high morals and values or being responsible are of no importance at all in this world, all that matters is sex and money?

All this years I believed in high values and morals but I am devastated every one wants to check the physical compatibility right away. I am not sure any more what is right think to do in a relationship any more. He told me I am pretty and nice but not much young and not savvy enough according to the world girls my age know everything in bed and are go getters. I am lost I got divorced almost 5 yrs I had no boyfriend or any other male friends as first I was not ready my daughter was too young and I wanted a stable job, Just recently started to look for some one.

When this guy approach me I told him I am looking for a true love, he told me he’s been out with many women and its time in his life when he is looking for stability and soul mate. Before we started seeing each other I told him no games
as I have been hurt in the past and not looking for fun or time pass. I am seriously looking for someone.

But after this relationship I feel is it too late to find a guy who would be faithful and respectful in a relationship, as this guy could not even wait for 6 weeks. Please advice I am a strong person but feel like kind of lost in today’s world. Thanks for answering.

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